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 Thinking about swinging? Just some things to know.

Swinging won't fix a fucked up relationship.

Swinging is not a phase that you think your mate may get out of their system.

Swinging must be consensual. Just because you like her friend and want the all tume ffm male fantasy, is not a reason to  enter the lifeatyle or force your partner. If this is not what you both want, respect that or be willing to accept that one day your relationship will end. 

I have known people who have suffered emotional damage from someone they love forcing them to participate. 

This life style only works 100% concentual. It's about shared experience. It's about two people who not only share the enjoyment of sexual encounters with others, but two people who get excited seeing the one they love pleased, and vice versa. 

There are some acceptions, but in definition not acceptions. 

If your girl likes girls so ffm is all she wants.

The point is, if both fantasies are not considered, not fulfilled. Then this lifestyle will end your relationship. 

If your a newbie interested. Have sex with your partner and talk it up. Talk dirty, let your mind freak and spit it out durring sex. You will know if you hit a cord with your partner. Test it, then discuss it, then when you do it, you will see your relationsgip grow. 

RKangel44 08.02.2016 6 496
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  •  Wish4us16: 
     
    One day i want to surprise my man with another woman
     
     09.25.2016 
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  •  Dlcsgoddess: 
     
    Great post! We are newbies and this is exactly what we have been doing... we communicate constantly... if one of us decides we are done, we are done.
     
     09.15.2016 
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  •  RKangel44: 
     
    True honesty in a relationship can make life amazing. If you both have it and live it and share it, sometimes the limmitations you both place can be renagotiated and expand to places you never knew were possible.
     
     08.02.2016 
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  •  RKangel44: 
     
    Communicate your limmits. Never judge but lay it out that, i can take it this far.
     
     08.02.2016 
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  •  RKangel44: 
     
    Always keep in mind, your partner wether they be male or female, have fantasies. Both may be equally as tame or equally as mind blowing. If you are bot willing to see your partners fantasy fulfilled then you shouldn't expect your own. This lifestyle is avout open minds.
     
     08.02.2016 
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