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This lifestyle can be so frustrating.

In the last week, we as a couple have had three couples flake, and I've had two solo dates cancel. It's starting to get to the point where I wonder if the issue is me. What the hell am I doing wrong?

LittletonHotWife 07.03.2018 32 342
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  •  kurtnkara: 
     
    We totally agree.we have had a few good encounters but 90 prcent of the time we get stood up.sucks cuz we get all ready and are a lot of fun.gonna try a little longer
     
     4 days ago 
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  •  LatinSinner93: 
     
    Just had a couple flake on me tonight, granted Im a newer member, but I had little success when CL Casual Encounters was still up. As goodoleboy44 stated, patience is a virtue. Still hoping Ill find a sexy lovely kinky couple to show me more of what Ive been craving!
     
     10 days ago 
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  •  us2here4u: 
     
    It all boils down to honesty, communication and respect. For those with serious intentions, these are the basics... writing accurate, detailed, honest, complete profiles, putting up good, accurate photos of all parties listed in the profile... reading other peoples profiles in full and respecting what you find there. As for no-shows and flakes, there should be a feedback system on here to keep members honest with themselves and others. The lifestyle is important to us and we choose to be respectful of others in every way. Opportunities to actually sync and hookup in this hectic world are actually rare for most people so after going to so much trouble we would never flake on it!
     
     12 days ago 
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  •  Someobscure: 
     
    We have interacted with far more flakes than real people in this internet pursuit of a couple we can enjoy. Out of the multiple plans we have made 4 couples actually showed up. The first wasn't honest about the gay experience he was looking for. Second one we simply had zero attraction to. Third we enjoyed and had a great experience. We will see them again. 4th we met and enjoyed them personally but wasn't attracted to them physically. That is all OK. Finding a genuine person here is just like finding a genuine person anywhere. There are not that many around. Combined with a forum like this where pretension is practically the foundation of presentation. Of course most we meet here are not genuine in their motivation or presentation. It used to be fun to meet a couple online and work your way up to a meet. We used to get so nervous and excited. After multiple no shows and let downs we don't get nervous or naively excited anymore. The fun of it is disappearing also. We know that the chances of making a connection here are slim at best. We are trying to be less shy and flirt with people we meet around everyday. This seems the best way to grow ourselves and meet others we can enjoy and that can enjoy us. This online pursuit is extremely frustrating. All you really want is to meet good, fun and open minded people. What you get is run around, lied to, or just straight catfished. I think we are going to ditch the web searching in favor of being more out going and personable when we are out and about. We hike and trail run a lot. Our hope is to meet others like us doing those things we love. Wish us luck and if you see us out and about say hi. We will find others worth our time. In the end we still have hope. We are dreamers. Good luck everyone. May your wishes and dreams come true.
     
     13 days ago1 replies1 replies 
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    •  JandBinCO: 
       
      Sounds just like our experience with online sides... I agree 100% with what you wrote.
       
       8 days ago 
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  •  2for299: 
     
    We have been in lifestyle for 17 years. Play hell meeting couples and single m/f. Hit meet and greets house parties go to mon chalet etc. Think it's the nature of the beast.
     
     13 days ago1 replies1 replies 
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