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"Straight" men that are actually bisexual

We run into a lot of couples whose profile says that the man is straight and the woman is bi, but when we talk to them, they admit that he is at least bi-curious. Why not just say that on your profile? Chances of someone you know finding your profile and seeing that you are bi or bi-curious are probably slim to none. I know that we usually skip a lot of straight men/bi women profiles because we both want to have fun. Have you run into this as a bi single or bi couple?

You would be surprised how many "straight" guys are open to bi fun. I always say best to stay away from labeling sexual fun and just explore. Labels are too restrictive for me.

Is it still straight if both penises are in the same vagina right?

I'm Bi. And I let  others know it here. Its om my profile.

I think though that there a guys who say they are straight but will play bi when the time/circumstances are right because there are plenty of  profiles that say  "No bi men".  It certainly limits the possibilities when another man is  afraid of even incidental contact. Yes, I'm bi... but  prefer women  and understand no means no.

I agree with musiclife.  Being a bi guy (even just curious) isn't as socially accepted as being a bi woman.  A lot of guys aren't quite ready for the "are you a top or bottom" conversation, but they are still curious about oral sex.  It's easier to have that to have straight male in the profile, and it the bi subject comes up in conversation it's easier to admit that curiosity after a few adult beverages.

Nosinglemen DVP is our favorite!!!

I put myself as Bi in our profile.  I have no desire to be alone with a guy, but in a couples or group situation I would happily do everything from sucking cock to getting fucked, or fucking another guy.  Really Im just pansexual - whatever is fun and feels good :)

So we discovered pegging .. it is amazing. Could never imagine how freaking sexy and dirty and nasty it feels and how hard we cum.. she cums just pounding me.

I think it’s opened up a whole new side of me and have become so open . She is so open to whatever I am wanting and visa versa.. we want to share another guy or couple.. ( we have shared couples but no m/m currently have a g friend we play with ) but not sure how to even meet a single guy .. any body really done well on Kinkster ?

Am I Bi? I’m not really attracted to men but so wanna play with them with my sig other.. we are just totally open 

Principle well said it's not about being gay it's enjoying all parties there is so pleasure to be  had 

I'm not attracted to men romantically either Funcuple. I just like playing with another guy. Pegging is fun...but a real cock in your ass is amazing!

Personally I like pegging better due to the vibrations. But something about sucking a cock turns me on.

I really don't understand why a lot of males are do afraid admitting that the are bi it's just sex yes it's on my our profile that we are bi and I'm much more of a bottom than a top lol 

Yeah if you label yourself as straight but are bi or curious, expect to get overlooked from us. 

This has been a very good discussion. It has made me talk a closer look at myself and open up to the wife more. I enjoy pegging, but I am not attracted to men. But if contact or happened during play time I would not be turned off by it. The time and mood would have to be right and I would probably go farther. So I have change to bi-curious and will stop holding back and see what happens. 

You don't have to be attracted to men to enjoy the pleasure of same sex. This is why I like the hetroflexible tag. You can not be into men romantically but still admit that it can be pleasureful. 

It's a big step to suck that first dick. But after you do, you start looking forward to the next one. Parts are parts and they all give pleasure if used correctly. 

We prefer bi friendly.  But there is not  a option for that.   Doing a DVP. Is a total  turn on for me  and to see her face when she gets  2 cock is priceless.  And kiss her  after  she just  had  been sucking  dick. Mmm

But I  can't  see my  self  giving  or receiving.  And my wife is  ok with  recieving  only.  But prefers  men. 

So we are straight and bi friendly.   You  never know what  doing  to happen in the  heat of  sex.  And if you're  in the  lifestyle  we can't  be  afraid of  touching.  

I mean, I am a straight guy from a relationship and what I find generally sexual attractive perspective, but in a group sex situation I want it all.  I will suck and fuck whatever feels good.  My wife just mounted me doggy style yesterday with a strapon and fucked my ass while she jerked me off - It was amazing.  I don't think it makes me truly bi-sexual from a relationship perspective, but you better believe that if I could have a guy pumping my prostate with his cock while my wife is sitting on my face and sucking my cock ... uh .. yes please ... lol I'd blow my load practically instantly.

I totally understand your frustration. I cant even count how many couples I've began to chat with, and then get told that they're looking for a guy for both of them to give oral or do more to together after the fact that I've established that I'm a straight man only looking for a situation where all attention is focused on the female. It's always the couples who are great at omitting the truth. I think for some, it's not gay if you receive but it is gay if you give, well I disagree. Its gay either way. I'm straight and I tell people all the time and they still have the nerve to try and be sneaky about trying to have me and another man try and experiment together. Sexuality is not night/day, black/white. Sexuality is a spectrum, if a person says they are straight well how straight are they really? And if a person says they are gay then how gay? That's why its important for everyone to just be honest and detailed about what they want. I'm not against what another man or couple is into, it's their own business what they do behind closed doors but to lie and trade pics BEFORE admitting what you're really all about is complete bullshit.

I’m up front being bi but being a solo male has its drawbacks. Being a solo bi male seems like a good fit for most couples exploring this side of their sexuality. Seems most couples just want couples but how often do both women play at the same time the guys are exploring mmf or mfm? I’m a rule follower and if I reach out and someone says no thank you I would never bother them again. It does seem rude when people have things derogatory towards solo guys. I get there is abuse from single men wanting that couples experience but hopefully the house meaning recently done took care of most of those guys. It’s hard to define bi/straight in this environment unless you are adamant about not organically exploring. 

Omg did you just get me super horny!!! 

I mean, I am a straight guy from a relationship and what I find generally sexual attractive perspective, but in a group sex situation I want it all.  I will suck and fuck whatever feels good.  My wife just mounted me doggy style yesterday with a strapon and fucked my ass while she jerked me off - It was amazing.  I don't think it makes me truly bi-sexual from a relationship perspective, but you better believe that if I could have a guy pumping my prostate with his cock while my wife is sitting on my face and sucking my cock ... uh .. yes please ... lol I'd blow my load practically instantly.