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Facials...

How do men and women feel about facials?  Some women love the experience while others are completely turned off. Men do you enjpy seeing your lady with one???

I can totally respect and value the fact that everyone has their own kink and pleasure (and that it is very diverse among gender, etc).  I love and support all adults to be engaging in whatever consensual/legal pleasure they want.  

Personally however,  I am quite passionate (and I admit sensitive at times) about the long/hard road to sexual freedom/empowerment  some women go through.  We are sent messages our whole life about what our role should be in the home, in the work place, in society and definitely in regards to sex.  In my husband and I's experiences, we have found that some men truly think that many things they see depicted in main stream/ professional  porn is actually what women want.  I do not feel  that is accurate in most instances.  I also think there are some women who view that, and feel as if that is what is expected of them in their role.  

So personally for me, I will not allow a man to purposefully cum on my face.  I am certainly not turned off by lovely, warms spurts of cum on my body (and even on my face if it occurrs).   But for me, the intention of it feels degrading (regardless of what their intention is).  

Seem every time you end up on your knees masturbating with one hand and trying to maintain balance with the other. Constantly throwing off your rhythm because you're pointing it down... keep re-positioning yourself until you're body's at a 45 degrees angel.... left arm taps out from supporting the usual position... you give up and go for another round... wait until the last moment... Jump up! BOOM!!! Hit the side of her forehead and the pillow... She giggles about it as you fetch a towel. :)

Robert. You're hilarious. Most women don't want cum on their face or in their mouth. We have to respect that. Just think men, would you want another guy to shoot his load all over your face?  I know some would.

Always try to keep the expense positive. Be respectful find out how they want the ending ceremonies to proceed. Aka communicate 

Well I'm in the minority. If the passion is there and a man wants to explode on my face. Well please do! I don't find anything about sex degrading if both parties are communicating and in agreement. If there is something you want to try, just ask. If I'm not comfortable with it, I'll just say NO. I'm also not into the feminist type of thinking. I believe women and men have their roles. I have no problem with a strong dominant man and making him a sandwich after a good fucking. Lol just my two cents.