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Fucking with Disabilities

We are Shawn and Sesha (Shawn is writing this, but Sesha knows about it). I recently had back surgery on my spine (January 24th), requiring me to wear a back brace. I will be going to the doctor today and crossing my fingers that he will say that it will be okay to take the brace off. I was originally walking around with a walker (keep in mind that I'm only 44), but through daily physical therapy, I've gotten better day by day. I keep the brace on all day and take it off when I (try) to go to sleep. I don't need the walker anymore around the house (because I'm familiar with my house), but I use it outside, since the outside can be unpredictable (especially in this snow).  Since my surgery though, Sesha and I haven't fucked, because I've been in too much pain. After a few weeks though, when I found a comfortable position to lie down, we have mutually masturbated watching porn.

Eventually (like I said...hopefully today), I won't need the brace. However...I will still be having problems lying down and bending at the hips (two essential positions for sex). My doctors said that I should be perfect in about nine months to a year.  So...there will only be certain positions I will have to use comfortably without pain in my current situation. Doggiestyle seems to be the best (I have no problem with my knees). If I work on my arms, then missionary might work (it depends on how I'm positioned). One of my favorites...woman on top...is out the window for a while (it would be painful to lie down and have someone on top of me). Side-fucking won't work either because I can barely sleep on my side anyway right now...much less fuck. Blowjobs can work, but I would have to be either standing up while the woman is sucking or kneeling on my bed. Eating pussy (one of my favorite things) would have to also be done carefully. Since I'm bi, I would have certain positions that I would have to do to suck cock, fuck, or get fucked. Doggiestyle where I'm the bottom might work, but for only so long before my back starts hurting. I can get on my knees to suck cock, but not while he is lying on the bed. I could fuck a guy doggiestyle (just like I would fuck Sesha) for longer than getting fucked. I might be able to be on top of a guy, but I don't know. It sucks when you are limited in the sex that you want to have!

So my question for all of you is...are there some positions that you can't do because of an injury or because it just hurts so bad? I have heard numerous times about women who have bad knees, preventing them from being on top for too long or sucking cock on their knees.  What are your stories? What have you done to compensate for what you can't do? I know that I'm not the only one out there that has problems with sex because of an injury or pain! By the way...don't be afraid to expose your injuries. We don't judge when we are playing with others, so we would respect your limitations like we hope that you would respect ours.