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New trend???

This has happened a couple of times now. We get a friend request, check out the profile and if we like what we see, we accept. A little later, get a message from the new "friend". The next time we sign on to the site and try to reply to the message, we find out we've been blocked? So because we couldn't reply IMMEDIATELY, we get blocked, is that it?

Kinkster isn't the only site we've had this happen on. Are people so conditioned to instant gratification that they can't accept that others might have a life outside of replying to them as soon as they get a message?

Sorry. Rant done.

Sometimes when looking at this site on your phone it is very easy to hit the block button and not know it. It also doesn’t ask for confirmation, so it can happen on accident.

 

Sometimes when looking at this site on your phone it is very easy to hit the block button and not know it. It also doesn’t ask for confirmation, so it can happen on accident.

 That would be understandable if hadn't happened three times in the last week on this site and twice on another site. 

Very interesting topic. We've had multiple folks respond and reach-out to us with interest ... only to be *ghosted* later.

Sounds like a possible *bug* to me :/

btw - If you've ever been on AdultFriendFinder, it's MUCH worse - possible *Shadow Banning* :0

Had this happen a few times on here. Usually a mistake in most cases, but definitely frustrating. An “are you sure” prompt would be helpful before blocking profiles. 

This has happened to us. Each time.we.found out that someone accidentally blocked us without knowing. What we don't like is if someone blocks you, you are now unable to block them. Ie... You can't see their profile but you can't stop them from seeing yours.

 

This has happened to us. Each time.we.found out that someone accidentally blocked us without knowing. What we don't like is if someone blocks you, you are now unable to block them. Ie... You can't see their profile but you can't stop them from seeing yours.

 Wow! We had NO idea it was THAT serious!

If anyone believes WE have blocked them, please reach out to us on MeWe: mewe.com/i/Californian1776

They have free private chat but beware of their Terms Of Service - they are not too keen on "pornography" :/

Claire and Jackson

I think  is by accident because we’ve been blocked from other members that we never met or chatted.

We can sympathize as it’s happened to us too. Maybe pesky pic collectors?  They get the content they want/need and then are off to the next one. 

Are you both moderating your account? I'm just asking because Mr and I are both on every site we are a member of all the time as we have different schedules, and maybe that helps us respond quicker? I don't even know how to look at who has blocked us on here without opening every email. Is there a better way?

Ms kinx