My best advice for single men is to get your personality across to potential playmates.
Take a step back and realize a single guy has not a lot to offer most couples and what can you really offer them?
Ask yourself; if you were a couple would you ever meet up with single guy?
- If you answer yes; be the guy you would invite over.
- If you answer no; understand the whole issue is hypocritical.
Personally i would never pick a guy who has not been on the other side of it.
One thing to keep in mind is most guy try for couples because they think its an easier path, but honestly a decent single guy is about as hard to find as a single woman.
Keep in mind as a single guy you are not doing anyone a favor nor do they owe you anything. its more like a job opening, you just have to be the best relaxed, non treating guy.
Anyhow... post topics, tell stories, ask questions and give advice - probably the best way to relay your personality - think of the content you post as your resume.
It takes more work for a guy but its always worth it.
The overall experience has been very positive with an unusually high success rate for most of the members i talk to.