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Stretchmarks

Own it, I bet you look great. If people don’t like it then they don’t need to message you.

 

Beauty marks not strechmarks

I totally get you on this. I struggle with it as well. Thankfully I have a hubby who loves mine and is helping me love them myself. I see lots of women with and without them. Hell I posted pictures of myself 6 months pregnant ;) Be you. 

As a sapiosexual i find it appealing knowing youre a real human being with flaws and perfections that make you you. Seeing that your body has gone through stress and is still intact is a very attractive trait. Dont be ashamed of your body its a very beautiful thing to be a giver of life which is what women are :)

No one is perfect, people in reality are lumpy, bumpy, hairy, and blemished animals...and sexy as hell!!

Great post and responses!  Love it!

I really appreciate this post and all the honest responses. Nobody is perfect. If we are all being honest I had a mommy makeover 3 months ago. Feels good but now I am insecure about my tummy scar... and before I was always insecure about my stretch marks. We can always find things to be too hard on ourselves over. You are a beautiful woman! And I find it hard to believe that anyone here would disagree. You're on here!! Being honest and open and sexual. That makes you even sexier! And seriously I havent heard a guy complain about stretch marks since I stopped talking to bitches. lol ;) Like the first comment said, OWN IT! XoX -G

GiaLove Admin@Kinkster.org

I agree 110%.  If a guy or couple has a problem with it, are they really a person with whom you'd feel safe exploring?

My special friend (also on Kinkster) is (was?) self conscious of stretch marks from pregnancy. But its a non-issue, she is sexy, beautiful, kind and creative. That's the type of person I'd seek out.

Enjoy your exploration!

The problem is, too many people watch porn. All the pornstars are perfect. Fuck that, real people have scars, and stretch marks. Some people are just plain unattractive. If you have a problem with someones looks, or their size, or if they have a c section scar or stretch marks. Do us all a favor and leave this site and go pay for a prostitute that looks perfect.

You say "Stretch marks", we say "Tiger stripes". Makes you real. Shows you've lived. You've earned them... don't let society's definition of beauty make you feel like they need to be airbrushed away...

I also can relate to your insecurity about your stretch marks...I've got my share of them too, & I'm still getting people thinking I'm pregnant b/c of my P.P.P. (Post-Prego Pooch) from my pregnancy w/ my now, 15-month old.. It's not always easy to let go of these physical "imperfections" is it? Luckily, I've found that my husband, among others, still comment on how beautiful I am. I'm not saying this to sound egotistical because I'm harder on myself, & probably more judgmental than anyone else would be. We sometimes just need a little reminder from others to boost our spirits - it's really unfortunate that women, especially those who have children, feel so insecure about these natural changes in our bodies. We're busy comparing ourselves to what we imagine others want to see, being distracted by the fact that we ARE beautiful & there are many people out there who would definitely pursue us (in a good way) & thank their lucky stars to see us naked! wink

I honestly love seeing stretch marks and also c-section scar because they show that we are all human. We are all here to meet fun and beautiful inside and out and that’s what u love about this community is that nobody judges and it’s filled with all positive comments

 Very well said!

You say "Stretch marks", we say "Tiger stripes". Makes you real. Shows you've lived. You've earned them... don't let society's definition of beauty make you feel like they need to be airbrushed away...

 

GiaLove Admin@Kinkster.org

 Thank you for sharing! The more we talk about these things I think the more comfortable it makes eachother as well as ourselves. And you don't sound remotely egotistical. Why do we feel it is ok to be hard on ourselves for things like stretch marks or surgery scars or post baby bellies but it's not ok to say the things that we are proud of, or things others have complimented us on. Confidence is honestly more sexy than anything and I think most would agree. Boost eachother and yourselves! XOXX

I also can relate to your insecurity about your stretch marks...I've got my share of them too, & I'm still getting people thinking I'm pregnant b/c of my P.P.P. (Post-Prego Pooch) from my pregnancy w/ my now, 15-month old.. It's not always easy to let go of these physical "imperfections" is it? Luckily, I've found that my husband, among others, still comment on how beautiful I am. I'm not saying this to sound egotistical because I'm harder on myself, & probably more judgmental than anyone else would be. We sometimes just need a little reminder from others to boost our spirits - it's really unfortunate that women, especially those who have children, feel so insecure about these natural changes in our bodies. We're busy comparing ourselves to what we imagine others want to see, being distracted by the fact that we ARE beautiful & there are many people out there who would definitely pursue us (in a good way) & thank their lucky stars to see us naked! wink

 

GiaLove Admin@Kinkster.org

More than 80 percent of women have stretch marks somewhere! I have em and I’m also self conscious as well. My hubby has helped me accept the tiger stripes. It just shows that I’m a mom and I carried human beings inside me for 9 months! Real women carry real stripes and have more fun!

Like someone else said if they don’t like it they can just move on. If ya got it flaunt it! 

My wife gets self conscious about her body as well, but I think she is beautiful and sexy. Others from the comments we have received think so as well and I love it when I can show her that they think she is sexy too. She has definitely become more willing to show herself off. I tell her all the time if someone doesn’t want to meet us because of a couple sags and stretch marks then it’s their loss.

i would take strechmarks any day! it really is all about being comfortable in your own skin, and loving to be pleasured because you are a beautiful person.