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By BrightonHotWife 10.12.2016
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  •  Monsantos: 
     
    People who bitch about flakes should maybe take a moment (putting aside their own self-absorbed priorities) to consider the veritable infinity of factors which comprise another human life. Seriously: you literally have NO fucking clue.

    If fucking around with strangers (or not being able to because, you know, sane people have a thousand other things which take precedence over getting-off with new people) is the biggest issue you're having: maybe you should reexamine your priorities.

    We would always rather someone cancel if they can't be 100% present and into what's happening (for whatever reason), and we're always appreciative when people express understanding when we have to cancel. After all: how good a lover is someone if they can't even demonstrate on a basic level that they're considering your situation and your feelings BEFORE everyone's naked?

    Just be honest if you're not interested. Even if an excuse isn't legitimate: everybody gets cold feet; sex isn't like a handshake for everyone, and not only is that okay, but the fact that it's more than that is part of the reason we enjoy it so much.

    We personally make plans designed to work-out regardless of whether or not the other people show-up; we keep our expectations in-check, and we try to remember that we cannot possibly understand the complexity of someone else's life, their psychology, or whatever else.

    There are some "friends" of ours with whom maybe 1 out of every 4 attempts at planning work-out, but we keep exchanging messages, and we enjoy our company that 25% of the time it does work out; we don't fucking shame each other with childish name-calling; we respect each other.

    Patience and understanding make for the best relationships.
     
     04.14.2018 
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  •  rockymntswingers: 
     
    Over 9/10 seem to flake. That messes with a good play date.
     
     08.04.2017 
    0 points
     
  •  GiaLove: 
     
    Hell No!!!! Unless it is a legit emergency and I get more than 5 hours notice then one strike and we're out. Maybe that's harsh...just don't have time for the BS. And to the above comment about kids...I agree. The one meet I did have to cancel was because of a sick kid. It happens...but you should have some sort of warning and if you have kids then wouldn't you already have a babysitter...I doubt you were planning on bringing them with you.
     
     05.25.2017 
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  •  chubbluv8: 
     
    We have had alot of flakes on here!
     
     01.28.2017 
    0 points
     
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BrightonHotWife
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10.12.2016 (1008 days ago)