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First, a few Public Service Announcements:

1. I will not send endless selfies/take new selfies on demand. You have been informed. I am happy to share some face pics with you, but I am looking for more than just mutual physical attraction and am totally up for meeting in person to see if we have that in-person chemistry, but if the deeper personality chemistry isnt there and you cant carry on a meaningful conversation with me before seeing a bunch of pics/meeting then it wont work for me in person. (I dont need an endless stream of selfies from you either - if you WANT to share, great - just dont expect me to feel obligated to reciprocate.) So long as we can recognize each other when we meet up in person, I am good.

2. NO MEANS NO. When I tell you, "No, I will not take more/new naughty pics for you. What I have on my profile is all I am comfortable sharing before meeting in person" pestering, demanding, insisting, guilt tripping, and badgering will not change my NO into "fine - Im sick of you asking so Ill give in" - I don't work like that. If you don't like (or at least have the ability to respect) my values, please move on and dont waste either of our time.

3. Yes, I'm looking for something that has a unique physical/relationship aspect (brief overview below - if you want to know more please feel free to ask), but as I stated above - thats secondary to the deeper personal connection that I'm looking for. I could be totally happy and satisfied in a 100% vanilla situation... but would ideally love to find someone who enjoys doing normal boring/everyday/vanilla/responsible adult stuff with me just as much as the occasional kinky fun stuff. Regular life still happens in between.

 

A broad overview of the "unique situation" mentioned above:
Ideally I would love to find someone (or a couple of someones) looking for (or open to the idea of) a DISCRETE long-term and quasi-monogamous *mmf* situation. I am open to various scenarios in this "realm" but would prefer for only the 3 of us to be aware of the full details of this situation (hence the discrete). To anyone outside this circle I would like for this to appear as a traditional M/F relationship and a close mutual best-friend type who hangs out with us (possibly eventually lives with us as a "roommate") doing regular-life normal vanilla best-friend stuff (go get drinks, game nights, hanging out at home doing nothing/nerding out/watching Game of Thrones, backyard BBQs, etc...) and also wants to be involved in some of those less traditional mmf activities when we have the opportunity. This could be a friend who enjoys being single/not being in a full-on relationship but likes the idea of being monogamously involved in long term "encounters"... or if they also want to pursue finding a primary relationship of their own I totally understand that too - like I said, I'm open to various scenarios here.

 

If you've read this far, hopefully it's because you're intrigued... lol

 

Stuff I Like To Do
Heres a random sampling of some stuff I dig:
- hang out with my kid
- Netflix binge on a whole season of something good in one weekend... lol
- Star Trek
- Star Wars
- Doctor Who
- Orphan Black
- Killjoys
- Dark Matter
- Epic Fantasy Novels (Brandon Sanderson is my favorite)
- Game of Thrones (HBO- I tried but just couldnt get into the books!!)
- Harry Potter (movie and book series)
- King of the Hill
- lots of other stuff! :)

 

I have a tendency to ramble (as if you didn't notice by now... lol) so I'll stop there, and if you want to know more please feel free to send me a message! :)

Username
nerdgir1
Age
33
Relationship Status
Single
Gender
Woman
Looking For
Man, Group, Couple (2 Men)
City
Arvada
State
Colorado
Country
United States