AC/DC

Can go either way; bisexual.  Person who enjoys swinger sexual activity involving either gender

ADULT

Pertaining to mature individuals, sexual content or activity; porn

AMAUROPHILIA

Is sexual arousal by a swing partner who is unable to see either due to artificial means, such as being blindfolded, or engaging in sex in total darkness

AMBISEXTROUS

The character or conditions in which someone can put either their left or their right hand into the pants of someone else and be completely satisfied with whatever genitalia they may find there

ANAL SEX

Anal intercourse; the act of the anus being penetrated by an object or penis. During anal intercourse it is most common for the penis to be involved

ANALINGUS

Oral contact or stimulation of the anus of one partner by kissing, licking, or sucking of the other; also known as rimming or rim job.

ARTS & FETISHES

Swingers who use non-sexual objects, actions, or non-genital portions of the anatomy to achieve sexual arousal and pleasure

AUSSIE KISS

Oral sex act where a the tongue is inserted into the opening of the vagina; similar to a French Kiss but only done “Down Under”

AUTOEROTIC

Masturbation

Back Door

Anal sex or anal intercourse. (See also Anal)

BBW

Big Beautiful Woman. Big Beautiful Woman. Larger than average woman that is very beautiful regardless of size or weight. (See also BHM)

BDSM

Bondage - Discipline - SadoMasochism. People who either enjoy pain or pleasure for arousal. (See also Masochism) (See also Bondage)

BHM

Big Handsome Man. Refers to a sexually attractive fat man that is large to extremely large. (See also BBW)

Bi

Short for bisexual. Someone that enjoys sex with both men and women.

Bi-Curious

Someone that is curious, interested in or has had limited bisexual experience.

Bondage

Bondage is the practice of restraining a person(s) for sexual pleasure. Types of restraints may include ropes, chains, leather straps or cloth. The person performing the binding is considered "dominant" while the person being bound is considered "submissive". (See also BDSM)

Can Entertain

Can entertain means that someone is willing to invite others to their home and/or party or venue for swinging.

Can Travel

is a swinger term, meaning the individual or couple is able to travel to a desired swinging location.

CD

Cross Dresser - A person who sometimes wears clothing associated with the opposite sex, generally referring to men that dress in women's clothes.

Clean

Free of sexually transmitted diseases. may also indicate that someone has trimmed pubic hair and or shaved smooth. (See also D&D Free)

Cougar

An older woman who sexually pursues men significantly younger than herself. Some definitions define the age difference as at least 8 years.

Couple

In swinging, two people, generally one male, one female that are participating together in the lifestyle. A swinger couple can be married or in an on going relationship and are usually living together.

CPL

In swinging, two people, generally one male, one female that are participating together in the lifestyle. A swinger couple can be married or in an on going relationship and are usually living together.

Cunnilingus

Cunnilingus is the stimulation of the vagina and clitoris by using the tongue mouth and lips, especially the tongue

D&D Free / DDF

Someone who considers themselves disease and drug free. Generally this refers to being free of STDs and illegal drugs. You may also see this written as D/D Free or just DD.

Discipline

Spanking, bondage or similar practice intended to arouse sexual desire and pleasure.

Double Penetration

Often abbreviated as DP. Simultanious vaginal and anal penetration or sometimes simultanious vaginal penetration. Generally this refers to two men using their penises for penetration, but objects, fingers, or toes may also be used.

DP

Simultanious vaginal and anal penetration or sometimes simultanious vaginal penetration. Generally this refers to two men using their penises for penetration, but objects, fingers, or toes may also be used.

Exhibitionist

Someone who enjoys displaying their body and being watched generally to achieve pleasure and sexual arousal. An exhibitionist would enjoy having sex in a public place.

F

Abbreviation for female. Within the lifestyle, you will see this used in personal ads and online profiles.

Fellatio

is the sexual stimulation of the penis by the mouth, especially by the tongue and lips or teeth, used in a sucking motion. Slang terms include: blow job, head, and giving head.

Fetish

Sexual stimulation via non sexual acts or objects. For example, someone with a "shoe fetish" may use shoes for sexual stimulation and pleasure.

Full Swap

An encounter between two couples that enjoy sexual pleasure with each other that includes anything up to and including intercourse. Also know as wife swapping, although this term is now less commonly used.

Gay

Homosexual. Someone who is sexually attracted to the same sex, generally a male, but not always.

GBM

Gay Black Man. A black male homosexual. Someone who is attracted to other men.

Group Sex

Sexual activity between three or more people, which usually involves a full swap.

GWM

Gay White Male. A white male homosexual. Someone who is attracted to other men.

Heterosexual

One who enjoys and has sex with only the opposite sex. Also known as being straight.

Homosexual

Someone who is sexually attracted to the same sex, generally a male, but not always. (See also Gay)

Hung

Refers to a male with a large penis. To be considered "hung", the penis should be around 7.5" in length or longer and thick.

HWP

Height/Weight Proportionate. Someone that is not overweight or underweight

Indoor Sports

Is a slang term for swinging activities. Also known as just "Indoor".

ISO

In Search Of. Seen in profiles and personal ads

Jacking off

Of a male, engaging in the act of masturbation

Kama Sutra

Or: Kamasutra, the Indian manual of erotic love believed to have been written by the Hindu sage Vatsyayana sometime between the 3rd and 5th centuries AD, containing descriptions and illustrations of sexual-positions, recipes for aphrodisiacs, descriptions of ways of kissing and embracing a lover, and so on.

Lesbian

Gay women. A woman sexually and emotionally attracted to other women.

Lesbian

Gay women.

LTR

Long Term Relationship. Used mostly in personal ads and online ads.

M

Male. Used mostly in personal ads and online ads.

Masochism

is sexual gratification through receiving pain and also humiliation from others. Pain can range from whipping, caning, drawn blood and bruising. Humiliation can range form degrading acts to verbal abuse. (See also BDSM) (See also Caning)

MBC

Married Black Couple. A black couple who is participating together in the lifestyle.

MBiC

Married Bi Couple. A couple participating in the lifestyle where at least one of them is bisexual.

MILF

Mother I'd Like (to) Fuck. A sexually attractive female with children. Usually this is in reference to an older woman (age 30 - 50).

Moresome

More than four people engaged in sexual activity. (See also Group Sex)

MWC

Married White Couple. A white couple who is participating together in the lifestyle

NSA

No Strings Attached. This means someone that wants to get together to swing without any sort of commitment or other relationship (other than sexual).

Off Premise

A swing club or party where there are no designated locations for play (sexual activity). This may or may not exclude the activity from actually taking place.

Orgy

Sexual interaction among several men and women in the same room. Complete absence of inhibition in everyone taking part. (See also Group Sex) (See also Moresome)

P/P

Photo/Phone. This is used in personal ads. For example, "P/P available upon request."

S&M

Sadism/Masochism. Sadism is the pleasure in the infliction of pain or humiliation upon someone, while masochism is the pleasure in receiving the pain.

Safe

In swinging, someone that is not at risk for becoming or causing a pregnancy.

SBF

Single Black Female. In the lifestyle, a black woman that participates by herself (without bringing anyone else along). (See also Unicorn)

SBiF

Single Bi Female. In the lifestyle, a bisexual woman that participates by herself (without bringing anyone else along). (See also Unicorn)

SBiM

Single Bi Male. In the lifestyle, a bisexual man that participates by himself . Many swinging couples frown upon single males being in the lifestyle, so a single male may have a difficult time making lifestyle connections.

SBM

Single Black Male. In the lifestyle, a male participating by himself, without a partner. Many swinging couples frown upon single males being in the lifestyle, so a single male may have a difficult time making lifestyle connections.

SGL

Single. A person, male or female that is participating by themselves in the lifestyle.

Sodomy

"Unnatural" sex, usually anal sex or oral sex, possibly forced.

Soft Swap

Or soft swing/swingers is a couple that enjoys sexual pleasure with others that includes anything up to but not including intercourse.

STD

Sexually Transmitted Disease. Also known as VD (venereal disease). An illness that is transmitted between humans by means of sexual behavior (vaginal intercourse, oral sex, or anal sex).

STR

Straight, a heterosexual person, male or female. (See also STR8) (See also Straight)

STR8

Straight, a heterosexual person, male or female. (See also STR) (See also Straight)

Straight

Straight, a Heterosexual person, male or female. (See also STR) (See also STR8)

Swap

Two couples exchanging partners. (See also Full Swap) (See also Soft Swap)

SWF

Single White Female. In the lifestyle, a white woman that participates by herself (without bringing anyone else along). (See also Unicorn)

SWM

Single White Male. In the lifestyle, a male participating by himself, without a partner. Many swinging couples frown upon single males being in the lifestyle, so a single male may have a difficult time making lifestyle connections.

thirty-nine

dialectical slang for oral-anal-sex , based on the ideograph (39) of a face buried between buttocks , the figure 3 being the buttocks and 9, the face . Note: Devotees of anilingus have a saying: ' Once you get past the smell, you've got it licked '. See anilingus for synonym

Unicorn

Slang for a single, generally bi-sexual female that participates in the lifestyle. Referred to as a "unicorn" because they are so rare.

Versatile

Another term for bi-sexual.

Voyeur

One who enjoys watching.

Voyeurism

The act of watching others engaged in sexual activities.

Water Sports

Also referred to as a golden shower. Urination involving sexual stimulation. This would be considered a fetish.

Xenophile

Person sexually attracted to and aroused by strangers.

Yank his crank

In relation to swinging, to tease a male sexually.

zipless fuck

Sex without emotional involvement or commitment, especially between strangers